Hey all!!  I have been talking to some friends about LOVE.  It seems that because I am single, people assume that I have no knowledge of relationships or that I have never been in love or had my heartbroken.  I agree that I can be disgustingly optimistic about almost everything.  I'm certain that this can be quite annoying but what is the alternative?  To mope about lamenting the things that have gone wrong or the fact that I have not met a mate for keeps yet (I'm 33 and without children which actually suits me right now) seems ridiculous and counter-productive.  One friend tells me about finding a soul mate and that I have to really get started looking for my one perfect match.  I didn't want to say anything to her but I don't really believe that there is just one person for everyone.  I believe that the soul changes throughout it's journey and successfull unions have partners who change together or grow separately.  But I'm single, so what do I know?  I think it's my affinity for spending large quantities of time alone with books, pen and ink that make me seem hermit-like ( I spend a lot of time outside alone also).

Maybe I should have asked the Goddess of the Moon for a mate during ritual last night.  Or maybe I should get a bunch of cats and close up shop for good (yeah right, NEVER).  Perhaps what I need is a little insight.  So how about everyone give me their insights about love and soul-mates.  Should I be concerned that I have'nt met THE ONE yet?  I feel fine but lately people keep telling me that I shouldn't feel fine but rather I should start clubbing potential mates over the head and dragging them back to my lair.  Should I be panicking? I can't wait to hear from you.

Goddess Bless